Why is it that the people you want the most for, the you put your heart into are the ones that can hurt you the most. They are the ones that can take what you value most and turn it to dust. They can take a precious moment and waste it away. They can turn a thought felt statement into a painful conversation.
I have found that the more that I out into someone (a relationship, friendship, work commitment etc..) the more I run the risk of getting hurt. Yet inst that what life is about? The risk of finding joy or getting hurt, the growth that comes from experiencing both parts of life. We need to be heard, validated, understood, accepted, respected, and so we search for those who will give us those things we search for, taking the risk of the pain that may come in the hopes of discovering the joy.
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